Gemma’s Blog


Dec 1 2024

When I talk to people about taking responsibility for their results, sometimes they don’t like the sound of it very much because it means that when bad stuff happens, you’re also taking responsibility for that too. Sometimes when I talk to people about taking responsibility for their results,[…]

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Nov 1 2024

The very first thing I want you to keep in mind is that you can never really know what somebody else is thinking, even if they tell you and they think that they’re being very accurate in what they have told you. The words that come out of[…]

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Oct 1 2024

The very first thing I’m going to say to help you get yourself into a motivated state is that you need to sometimes (not always but sometimes) change the meaning of the thing that you need to get motivated to do. If you’re motivated to do something that[…]

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Sep 1 2024

Sometimes when we’re in a real-life problem-solving situation, it’s really difficult to do the problem-solving because we are just overloaded with too much information. My very first tip to you today is to get rid of all the information that you don’t need at that moment or at[…]

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Aug 1 2024

Rule number one when asking for help is don’t apologise for asking for help don’t do that because it puts you in a position of seeming as if you’ve done something wrong and actually when you ask for help you’re not doing anything wrong so you don’t need[…]

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Jul 1 2024

This article talks about how to get rid of your feelings of hatred whether this is towards a friend, family member or sibling. If there are a couple of siblings who hate each other and who are constantly fighting – you don’t need to learn to completely love[…]

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Jun 1 2024

I’m going to be telling you all about how it is that you can stop yourself from holding a grudge because grudges are not nice. If you don’t know what I’m talking about when I say holding a grudge I mean holding on to bad feelings directed towards[…]

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May 1 2024

In my therapy clinic in Hemel Hempstead, Hertfordshire, I’ve been speaking to some young people who are getting particularly frustrated with other young people in their school, not following the rules and instructions that are in place. I’m going to give you three ways in which you can[…]

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Apr 1 2024

This article will talk about the benefits of having a schedule. I’m going to give you five reasons why having a schedule is a very good idea. When you are at school, you are working by a schedule that somebody has set out for you. It’s not something[…]

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Mar 1 2024

The reason why I’m talking to you about the colour pink is because to me pink is not just a colour. Pink is a way in which some people think – I’ve noticed that there are some young people that I work with in Hemel Hempstead (I’m going[…]

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